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Getting out: clinic handout

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Family events

When Your Child Ages Out of TRICARE

Regular coverage runs to 21, or to 23 for a supported full-time student documented in the Defense Enrollment Eligibility Reporting System (DEERS) — it ends at graduation or the 23rd birthday, whichever comes first.
TRICARE Young Adult is the buy-in that runs to age 26: unmarried, not eligible for an employer health plan. calendar year 2026 (CY2026) it costs $794 a month for Prime or $363 a month for Select.
A child who became incapacitated before the cutoff may not age out at all — if the medical documentation and dependency determination are on file. And in two-sponsor families, every child has exactly ONE sponsor in DEERS, and the record does not move by itself.

If Your Service Member Dies on Active Duty: Your Coverage and Benefits

Your TRICARE continues — covered as an active-duty family for the first 3 years, then as a survivor. It does not end at the funeral.
Two monthly payments you may qualify for — Survivor Benefit Plan (SBP) from the Department of Defense (DoD) and Dependency and Indemnity Compensation (DIC) from the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) — and since 2023 you can receive both in full, at the same time.
Three clocks still run: 90 days for health-plan changes, one year to file DIC for the best effective date, three years to use your one government-paid move.

Divorce: What Happens to Your Coverage

20/20/20 met — your coverage continues as your own, under your own record.
20/20/15 met — you get one year of TRICARE from the divorce date, with two things that can end it early.
Neither met — your TRICARE ends the day the divorce is final. The Continued Health Care Benefit Program (CHCBP) is the bridge you can buy.

After a Retiree Dies: Survivor Coverage, SBP, and CHAMPVA

Your TRICARE continues as a survivor at retiree-family costs — it ends only if you remarry, at any age. There is no age-55 exception in TRICARE.
The Survivor Benefit Plan (SBP), if it was elected, pays 55% of the elected base amount for your lifetime. You file the claim with the Defense Finance and Accounting Service (DFAS), promptly, on DD Form 2656-7.
If the death was service-connected, the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA)'s Dependency and Indemnity Compensation (DIC) may also pay, and since 2023 DIC and SBP stack in full. The Civilian Health and Medical Program of the Department of Veterans Affairs (CHAMPVA) is a separate VA program for families who are not TRICARE-eligible.

Medical

The Medical Board (IDES): What It Is and What Happens Next

A medical board documents your condition and decides if you can keep doing your job. It is not a discharge.
The Department of Defense (DoD) rates only the conditions that make you unfit for duty. The Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) rates every condition connected to your service. Same body, two different percentages, both correct.
Every deadline that counts arrives on your own paperwork. Read it the day it lands.

For the Family: What Happens to Your Coverage

If the member RETIRED, your coverage continues as a retiree family. The work on your end is the Defense Enrollment Eligibility Reporting System (DEERS), a 90-day enrollment window, and new identification (ID) cards once the paperwork lands.
If the member was SEPARATED, your bridge is the Transitional Assistance Management Program (TAMP) — but only if the service recorded it. Verify DEERS before you believe either answer. After that, the Continued Health Care Benefit Program (CHCBP) is the paid bridge: $5,339 a quarter for a family, 60 days to buy it.
If the member is on the Temporary Disability Retired List (TDRL), your status isn't settled yet. It follows the final disposition. Plan for both branches, not one.

Medical Retirement: PDRL, TDRL, and Your Money

You are a retiree. TRICARE continues as retiree coverage — enroll within 90 days of your retirement date.
The Permanent Disability Retired List (PDRL) is settled. The Temporary Disability Retired List (TDRL) is probationary — exams at least every 18 months, hard stop at 3 years.
Under 20 years of service, a high Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) rating does NOT unlock Concurrent Retirement and Disability Pay (CRDP). Combat-Related Special Compensation (CRSC) is the application-based path, and nobody applies for you.

Medical Separation (Under 30%): Severance, Coverage Bridges, and the VA

You are separated, not retired. TRICARE ends. The bridges are the Transitional Assistance Management Program (TAMP) — only if your service recorded you eligible, check the Defense Enrollment Eligibility Reporting System (DEERS) — and the Continued Health Care Benefit Program (CHCBP), which is expensive and has a 60-day window to buy.
Severance is real money with a hook in it: the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) recoups it from compensation for the same disability, unless the combat-zone exception covers you.
VA still treats your service-connected condition. Life insurance has hard clocks — Servicemembers' Group Life Insurance (SGLI) ends at 120 days, Veterans' Group Life Insurance (VGLI)'s no-questions window closes at 240 days.

Odd doors

Community Care and Urgent Care: VA Care Outside VA Walls

Two different doors, two different rules. Mix them up and you can end up paying the bill yourself.
Door one, referred Community Care: you need the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA)'s written authorization BEFORE you get care. No prior authorization, no VA payment — you're personally liable.
Door two, the urgent care benefit: walk in, no referral needed. It only covers urgent care, not ongoing treatment.
Access standards for Community Care are based on AVERAGE drive and wait times, not your personal commute on any given day.

The Emergency Door: VA Care at a Civilian ER

Went to a civilian emergency room (ER)? Call 844-724-7842 (the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) Centralized Notification Center) within 72 hours. This matters.
Two different laws pay for this, depending on why you were there — a service-connected track and a non-service-connected track. They don't work the same way.
Missed the 72 hours? Call 844-724-7842 anyway. A late notice can still help. It's not all-or-nothing.
If you're the one who paid, you have 90 days to file your own reimbursement claim — don't wait on the hospital's paperwork and lose track of your own deadline.

Teeth and Eyes After the Uniform: The FEDVIP Door

Your TRICARE Dental Program (TDP) ends at 11:59 p.m. on your date of separation or retirement — for you AND your family, at the same moment. No tail, no grace period.
The replacement for retirees is the Federal Employees Dental and Vision Insurance Program (FEDVIP), a separate federal dental and vision program — not a TRICARE plan.
The enrollment window opens 31 days BEFORE you retire, while TDP is still running — that's how you avoid a gap.
Miss the window, and the next chance is Federal Benefits Open Season, once a year.

The Long-Term Care and Caregiver Door: Who Pays When It's Not a Hospital

TRICARE does not pay for custodial long-term care. That door is closed — start there, so nothing below gets mistaken for it.
Medicare pays for a skilled nursing facility stay, but only after a qualifying 3-day INPATIENT hospital stay — emergency room (ER) time and observation status don't count — and only up to 100 days, with a real cost jump after day 20.
The Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) has a mandatory tier for nursing home care (70% or more service-connected, or a service-connected need) and a discretionary tier below it. They are not the same promise.
If you're the one caregiving, there's a program built for you — any service era, a monthly stipend, and the Civilian Health and Medical Program of the Department of Veterans Affairs (CHAMPVA) coverage, if the veteran meets the criteria.

The US Family Health Plan Door: Prime, But Not Prime

US Family Health Plan (USFHP) members do NOT get to stay in USFHP past 65 as the general rule. With Medicare Parts A and B, you move to TRICARE For Life (TFL) — USFHP doesn't run alongside it.
Without both Medicare parts at 65, you're disenrolled from USFHP, and you lose TRICARE For Life eligibility too. There's no soft landing there.
USFHP locks you into its own network. Enroll, and you give up the right to use other TRICARE networks and the Point of Service option.
Delaying Medicare Part B past 65 costs you a permanent 10% penalty per full 12-month period you wait — and the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) care does not count as creditable coverage that protects you from that penalty.

Overseas

When It Breaks Abroad: Divorce, Death, and the Trip Home

There is no single universal rule for a former spouse's immigration status after an overseas divorce, nor is there a universal right to remain for a surviving spouse — host-country law and the applicable Status of Forces Agreement (SOFA) control.
Divorce does not automatically authorize a government-funded early return of dependents; authorization depends entirely on the Joint Travel Regulations (JTR), your service, and your command circumstances.
If a sponsor dies overseas, the government authorizes a move for the family, with specific timing and home-selection windows handled directly by the casualty assistance office.
Retiring members have three years from an active-duty termination effective on or after June 24, 2022, to use their travel allowances to a home of selection.
Pet transportation reimbursement through the Defense Travel Management Office (effective February 21, 2025) offers up to $550 for a Continental United States (CONUS) Permanent Change of Station (PCS) and $2,000 for an Outside the Continental United States (OCONUS) PCS, but conditions apply.

VA Abroad: The Foreign Medical Program

The Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) healthcare does not automatically follow you around the world. The Foreign Medical Program (FMP) covers care outside the U.S. strictly for VA-rated service-connected disabilities and conditions that aggravate them.
VA enrollment alone does NOT make routine non-service-connected care FMP-covered.
You do not have to wait to sign up before getting care: you can register for FMP and file a claim at the exact same time.
The Civilian Health and Medical Program of the Department of Veterans Affairs (CHAMPVA) does not stop at the border — it travels with your family, providing the same benefits abroad as in the U.S.

Retired Abroad: TRICARE and Medicare Overseas

A retiree living overseas is NOT eligible for TRICARE Prime; your plan is TRICARE Select Overseas.
Military Treatment Facility (MTF) care for a retiree is strictly space-available, which is a possibility, never a promise.
Medicare generally stops at the U.S. border and pays nothing overseas.
You MUST keep Medicare Parts A and B to keep your TRICARE For Life (TFL) eligibility abroad. Dropping Part B to save the premium will cost you your TFL coverage entirely.
Because Medicare pays nothing abroad, a payer flip occurs: TRICARE becomes the FIRST payer for overseas TFL care. You pay up front and file claims with International SOS.

The Sponsorship Switch: Your Family's Care Overseas

Command sponsorship is the command's approval for your family to accompany you overseas; it directly controls accompanying-dependent authorization, government-funded travel, and eligibility for TRICARE Prime Overseas or Prime Remote.
Sponsorship does NOT universally guarantee Department of Defense Education Activity (DoDEA) school enrollment, government housing, or a particular level of Military Treatment Facility (MTF) access, and it is distinct from your host-country Status of Forces Agreement (SOFA) or immigration status.
Only command-sponsored active-duty family members (ADFMs) can enroll in TRICARE Overseas Program (TOP) Prime; non-sponsored family members cannot, but they may enroll in TRICARE Select Overseas if they are otherwise TRICARE-eligible.
A move is a Qualifying Life Event, giving you 90 days from your address change to switch plans — but do not disenroll from your stateside plan before arriving; coverage continues until the transfer completes.
Overseas providers may require you to pay up front. You will file a claim with proof of payment directly to International SOS, the TRICARE Overseas Program processor.

Reserve

Two Uniforms, One Family: Guard/Reserve Family Coverage & Dental

When the sponsor activates, the family's TRICARE Reserve Select (TRS) ends and the family becomes active-duty family — the flip is automatic in the system, but only if the Defense Enrollment Eligibility Reporting System (DEERS) is right.
Kids are covered only when actually ENROLLED — DEERS registration alone covers nobody, on TRS or TRICARE Retired Reserve (TRR).
Dental is its own enrollment with its own rules: the TRICARE Dental Program needs 12 months left on the sponsor's commitment, and on activation the member drops off it while the family's dental continues at the reduced active-duty-family rate.

The Gray Area: Retired Reserve, Waiting on the Pay Age

Finish 20 qualifying years and you're a gray-area retiree: retired pay normally starts at 60 — but qualifying active service can pull that age DOWN, three months for every 90 days.
The reduced age is not just a pay date — when you're entitled at the reduced age and the Defense Enrollment Eligibility Reporting System (DEERS) shows it, retiree TRICARE starts THEN, not at 60, whatever older articles say.
The bridge across the wait is TRICARE Retired Reserve (TRR): calendar year 2026 (CY2026) $645.90 a month member-only, $1,548.30 with family.

Mobilized: When Orders Flip Your Coverage — and Coming Home

Orders over 30 days flip you and your family to active-duty TRICARE — and with delayed-effective-date contingency orders, that coverage can start up to 180 days BEFORE you report.
Hurt or sickened by a duty period without being activated? That's line-of-duty care: one condition, an approved determination, paperwork through your unit — not general insurance.
Coming home from a qualifying mobilization, you get 180 days of the Transitional Assistance Management Program (TAMP) at active-duty-family terms with no premiums — then you rebuild: TRICARE Reserve Select (TRS) does not come back by itself.

Not Activated: TRICARE Reserve Select (TRS)

TRS is the coverage drilling Guard/Reserve members buy when they are not activated — calendar year 2026 (CY2026) it costs $57.88 a month member-only or $286.66 with family, and care comes from civilian TRICARE providers with deductibles and cost-shares, not from the base clinic.
The trap: if you're eligible for the Federal Employees Health Benefits Program (FEHB) through a civilian federal job, you cannot buy TRS at all — being eligible is enough to disqualify you, enrolling is irrelevant, until that exclusion ends on January 1, 2030.
When you activate for more than 30 days, TRS ends automatically, and your unused premiums for after the activation date are refunded.

Separation

Retired With a Day Job: Two Plans, One Wallet

With a civilian employer's plan, the job's insurance pays FIRST and TRICARE pays second — by law — with four named exceptions where TRICARE pays first.
Nobody makes you take the job's plan: a retiree can use TRICARE alone, and if the other insurance goes away, TRICARE becomes primary.
The federal version has a trap with a body count: Federal Employees Health Benefits (FEHB) eligibility never disqualifies a retiree from TRICARE — but if you're an FEHB annuitant who wants TRICARE instead, SUSPEND FEHB, never cancel it: cancellation is generally permanent.

The Paper Door: When Your Discharge Character Decides

Honorable and General Under Honorable Conditions walk through the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) door — VA treats both as under honorable conditions.
Other Than Honorable is NOT an automatic no: you can apply, VA makes its own character-of-discharge determination, and since June 25, 2024 the rules are wider than they used to be.
The true statutory wall is short — a dishonorable discharge or a general court-martial bad-conduct discharge bars VA benefits (with one narrow exception) — and a separate upgrade road exists through the Discharge Review Board within 15 years, then the correction boards.

Separation Day: The ETS Cliff

The day you separate, regular TRICARE ends for you and your family unless another category catches you — plan as if the cliff is the date on your orders.
A 180-day premium-free bridge, the Transitional Assistance Management Program (TAMP), exists, but only for listed categories — involuntary separations and several specific doors — and plain voluntary Expiration of Term of Service (ETS) alone is NOT one of them, though agreeing to join the Selected Reserve is.
The paid bridge is the Continued Health Care Benefit Program (CHCBP): up to 18 months at calendar year 2026 (CY2026) $2,103 a quarter individual / $5,339 family, bought inside a short window — 60 days for most, 30 if what you lost was TRICARE Reserve Select (TRS).

The School Door: A Student After Service

The GI Bill pays for school — it is not health insurance and it does not pay health-insurance premiums.
The door most student veterans already own is the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) health care: enrollment counts as qualifying coverage under the Affordable Care Act (ACA), but you have to apply — it is not automatic.
The trap runs the other way from what people expect: if you ARE enrolled in VA care, Marketplace premium tax credits are generally off the table for those months — and if you're not enrolled anywhere, the Marketplace may subsidize you.

The Other Door: VA Healthcare

The Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) healthcare is a separate system from TRICARE with its own door, its own application, and its own rules — your discharge and your service open it, not your old identification (ID) card.
A VA disability rating, even 100% permanent and total, does NOT make you eligible at the base hospital if you are not retired — Military Treatment Facility (MTF) eligibility is a Title 10 list and VA-only veterans are not on it.
If you qualify and enroll, where you land is a priority group — rated 100% puts you in Group 1 with no VA copays for care, tests, or medications.

Your Spouse Is Still Serving: The Door That Doesn't Close

When you separate, your spouse's service keeps a door open: you stop being the sponsor and become a family member on their record, covered by TRICARE as a direct dependent.
The flip only exists if DEERS says it does. Verify your dependent record and get your dependent ID card as part of separation. No DEERS record, no door.
This is enrolled family-member coverage — the military hospital and the civilian TRICARE network — not space-available leftovers and not a bridge that expires.

A Still-Serving Spouse and Medicare: The Part B Deferral

If you are Medicare-eligible and your spouse is still on active duty, you may delay Medicare Part B without the late-enrollment penalty. The Special Enrollment Period is keyed to your sponsor's service, not to any job of yours.
While you delay, you pay no Part B premiums and TRICARE remains your coverage.
When your spouse retires, an 8-month window opens. Enroll in Part B inside it — Part A plus Part B is what turns on TRICARE For Life. Miss the window and the penalty lasts for life.

Your Spouse Is Retired Military: Their TRICARE Is Also a Door

A retired spouse's TRICARE can cover you as a family member — a door that exists separately from your own service record and your VA eligibility.
The Part B deferral does NOT apply to a retired sponsor. At 65, TRICARE For Life requires Medicare Part A and Part B, enrolled on time.
Dual eligibility is normal and allowed. Run VA and TRICARE as one plan with two doors instead of discovering the second door by accident.

parents

Your Parent Is Married to a Serving Member: They Are a Direct Dependent

Your parent is covered as the spouse of an active-duty sponsor — a direct dependent with TRICARE Prime or Select in their own right.
The dependent record and the ID card come first. No DEERS record under the sponsor means no coverage, whatever the rule says.
This is enrolled family-member coverage, military hospital and civilian network included — not space-available care.

Secondary Dependency: When Your Parent Depends on a Serving Son or Daughter

A parent, stepparent, or parent-in-law can be approved as a secondary dependent.
Core test: sponsor provides MORE THAN 50 PERCENT of financial support.
Approved dependents get an ID card, base privileges, MTF pharmacy access, and space-available MTF care.
This is NOT health insurance; do not drop Medicare or civilian insurance.

No Serving Spouse, No Serving Child: The Honest Answer

With no active-duty spouse and no serving child as sponsor, there is no military dependent door for a parent.
Medicare and civilian coverage stay primary.
If the parent is a veteran, refer to 'The Other Door: VA Healthcare'.